Dear Henry,

I made it. Right on the 6th I’ m writing this to you. Your ol’ mom may be getting the hang of this two children life.

Today Charlotte asked to hold you. I had her sit back and I used a throw pillow to support your head that doesn’t really need supported anymore. After a few moments she said, “He is getting really big, Mama! Can you take him now?” I laughed as I relieved her. That was the understatement of the month.

Son, you are well over 15 lbs. I suspect you are already 16 lbs. We’ll know for sure on your 4 month check-up next week. That means you have doubled your birth weight in 4 months. We get a good arm workout carrying you around. You can already wear your size 6 month clothes. Your baby chub is delicious and adorable! I’m sure I’ll embarrass you with that tidbit one day.

Your fourth month was a blur with big snow and ice storms and everyone in our house getting sick, but you stuck through it, all smiles. I have been loving all the one-on-one time with you. You are sweet, happy company. When you’re not eating, you’re smiling, giggling and trying to roll over. You rolled over once, but it was kind of an accident and you haven’t done it again, so I’m not counting it, yet. You love being with me in the wrap or the carrier. At the grocery store you like to face out and smile at everyone. Literally. There is not an aisle of the store where you aren’t stopped and admired.

You have been sitting in your Bumbo chair everyday. You are strong and push up with your legs when we hold you up. The cutest thing was your amazing foot discovery. You found your right foot, then your left and you haven’t let go. We chuckle at how you want to hold your feet all the time. You have started to show interest in rattles and baby toys, mostly by putting them in your mouth. Your sister loves to take them from you or aggressively cram one of these toys in your face. She means well. Most of the time.

Watching your relationship with Charlotte has been wonderful this month! Sometimes, if you get fussy and can’t be soothed, we put you in your bouncy seat in front of her while she plays and you calm right down. She tickles you and and you laugh. She smiles and you grin bigger than ever. That’s when my heart feels like it’s going to burst. Daddy and I love seeing you together.

Your few, fleeting nights of sleeping 6 hour stretches were right when I wrote your 3 month letter. Yeah, you slept like that for maybe a couple nights. Mama spoke too soon. We’re gonna have to figure out something to get you to start sleeping through the night.

You make the exhaustion worth it. You are such a good, sweet baby. I love every moment with you. I love you, my sweet, sweet boy.

Love,

Mama