Strawberry Fields Forever!- May 3, 2010

Yesterday I was at the State Farmers’ Market for work and got to sample one of NC’s fabulous springtime treats.  Strawberries!  Small towns are filled with pick-your-own farms and roadside stands.  The big Farmers’ Market here in our city is fantastic and it’s an all out strawberry war for them to get you to buy their little “heaven nuggets” as I like to call them.

We had our awesome friends over for burgers and we let the dogs play.  It was a lovely afternoon! No offense to my friends but, these beauties all cut up with whipped cream were the best part!

I went to bed ready to eat the leftovers for dinner.  I could bathe in a tub of these beautiful berries.  Someone save me.  
These make grocery store strawberries seem pathetic.  
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Honeymoon- April 30, 2010

I’m at work in my same old clothes on my regular schedule.  I haven’t gained any weight.  I don’t feel sick anymore.  I’m not that tired anymore.  I’m feeling a little more like myself.  I LOVE the second trimester!  

Can I just stay like this but still deliver a healthy 7 to 8 lb. baby?  This has to be the Honeymoon Period.  I’m gonna savor it.

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Viva Las Vegas- April 22-26, 2010

We had been planning to go to Las Vegas for our 5th anniversary for some time.  We justified bringing our unborn child to Sin City because we had already paid for it.  (Please mail our “Parents of the Year” award to our home address.)
In my delicate condition, this was not a martini-drinking-casino-hopping-all-night-gambling-puke-inducing kind of trip.  But, it was a spa-going-poolside-sitting-fine-dining-Cirque-show-seeing kind of trip.  Heaven!  Exactly what we needed.

We stayed at The Palazzo.  Gorgeous!  We dined at the Bellagio and caught “O”, the coolest Cirque de Soile show ever.  Awesome!  We ate French food at Hubert Keller’s (our favorite chef on Top Chef Masters) restaurant in Mandalay Bay.  Delicious!  We had a couple’s massage at the Canyon Ranch Spa. Relaxing!

But, when Greyson asked me what my favorite part was, I said it was just walking around the strip with him.  We held hands even when they got sweaty from the heat.  We laughed at the guys on the street handing out nudie pics and promising us “A girl to you in 20 minutes!”  (I couldn’t decide who was more fetching, Brandi with an “i”, or Krystal with a “k”, both with the fake boobs.)  We played roulette and slot machines at the cheesy casinos and lost.  

We got a call from the nurse at the OB’s office telling us everything was totally normal on the 1st trimester screening just as we started the 2nd trimester.  Some good news from the real world was nice.  

On Friday night, on our actual anniversary, Greyson had the idea to play roulette and place bets on our anniversary and the date the baby is due.  We were the only ones at the table.  I stacked the chips high and proudly told the dealer the reasoning behind our special numbers.  He smiled and told us we were winners for sure.  I felt a little lurch of anticipation as the little silver ball rolled around, and around, and around.  Finally landing on some other number.

We were losers.  We left with lighter wallets and numbers that didn’t seem as special  But, I left the casino smiling, squeezing Greyson’s sweaty hand because I knew being married to him and having our child was no gamble, no chance.  It was a choice.  A choice we had made everyday for the last five years.  Now, we’re going to keep on choosing each other and our life together for years to come.  

Happy Anniversary Grey!

Us with an Elvis from Roanoke Rapids, NC and a Michael Jackson mascot thing.  
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Working when everyone knows- April 21, 2010

I worked just one day this week before leaving for our 5th anniversary vacation in Vegas.  I asked my boss not to tell my coworkers until I could get it all out to the family.  I figured they could all find out on Facebook.  They did.  Within a few hours I had about 60 comments to my post and many more posts on my wall.  The well wishes were great!  

My coworkers hugged me and were genuinely excited for Greyson and I.  It was so nice.  I got the “Was it planned?” and “Are you gonna find out the sex?” questions.  I figured all the irritation about me being gone for 12 weeks and people having to fill in would come eventually.  Today I just enjoyed everyone’s kind words.  
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Our little boxer- April 20, 2010


So insurance covered the extra, optional first trimester screening.  The one you have to get between 12 and 14 weeks that tests for Down Syndrome and Trisomy 18.  We were not at all worried about any disorder.  If there were any problems we would follow the doctor’s advice about carrying the child to term.  We would most likely have the baby and love it no matter what.  We did the screening because it was a free ultrasound. I’ll take it!  I wanted another glimpse at the little bean before we get on a plane this week.

I was pleased to learn this ultrasound was soley taking place on the epidermis of my belly.  (Ladies, you know how invasive it can be for that first ultrasound.)  The technician popped the image on the screen and the first thing our kid did was like this bucking jump or something.  I thought it was pissed at us for sending so many sound waves it’s way.  The tech assured me our baby was moving on it’s own!  What!?  No way our kid moves that much and I don’t feel it.  Sure enough.  It does.  It was moving so much the tech couldn’t get the proper measurements until the baby calmed down.

He asked if we wanted the 60/40 guess on the sex of the baby.  I declined.  I’d like better odds so I don’t get one gender in my mind.  I wanted to wait until the 18 week ultrasound to get a clear look at it’s junk.

The weirdest thing was the little punches.  The tech says, “It’s punching itself in the face.”  It was!  It’s little fists were punching the fluid around it, and almost slapping it’s little face.  Please baby!  Take it easy!  Wait for your sibling, cousin, or annoying peer to play the “Stop hitting yourself” game.  You’re just a little fetus!  

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